tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-44700959175821322522024-03-13T12:31:43.719-07:00Lily GraceCongential Heart Defect... my daughter was born 1/18/08 with CHD.. more specifically a VSD, ASD, PDA. We had some ongoing problems with enlargement, elevated pulmonary blood pressure, and anomalous muscle growth in the right ventricle following surgery, but as of 10/21/08 things look good.Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-76113573907374786312010-03-15T08:55:00.000-07:002010-03-15T08:58:02.588-07:002 years oldI have been horrible at keeping this updated. I am so used to using her carepage! It's lilygrace2 if anyone wants to venture over there to read about the last 8 months or so of her life. She's walking, talking, growing - she's up to 50% on the weight charts! 26 pounds 8 ounces as of Friday. She's huge! She's in speech therapy once a month and physical therapy twice a month - she didn't walk until she was almost 2. So they're trying to catch her up in her motor skills.<br /><br />She sees the cardiologist only once a year now. As of October 2009, she had a completely normal heart report. Size and function were normal for the first time since birth!<br /><br />Again... her carepage is www.carepages.com and her page name is lilygrace2. I'll try to remember to copy my updates there over to here!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-17152366265124464792009-06-19T06:25:00.001-07:002009-06-19T06:25:44.616-07:00One year post op and 17 months oldToday we celebrate the anniversary of Lily's surgery to repair her defects. I can't believe it's been a year! I remember so clearly what I was doing at this time a year ago - pacing the same-day-surgery waiting room with a sleeping baby, updating everyone constantly, stressing out! If only I could have napped! But it came, and it went smoothly, and I'm amazed at the changes I've seen in Lillian over the past year! She was such a trooper, and she's grown and developed so much! I believe she's about 22 pounds now, not sure how tall. I had to fold up the soft pink blanket I bought her the day we left the hospital last summer. It was kind of my "healthy heart" present to her, and now she's way too big for it! But it was used almost every day over the winter. It's sitting in her closet now and it's something I know I'll keep forever.<br /><br />As you all celebrate this milestone with me, please keep Tiffany Robinson in your prayers, as Sunday is the anniversary of her daughter's death following a stroke she had post-ToF repair. Her surgery was the same time as Lillian's - you can go back in my updates and read her story.<br /><br />Yesterday Lily turned 17 months old! She still only has 1 tooth, she's not really talking yet and not walking - but she's getting soooo close! She will bear walk and stand herself up for a few seconds, and then she sits down like "what am I doing up here?" She's very expressive - her facial expressions crack me up sometimes. When she's happy or excited, she gets big eyes and claps and goes "yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay!" I'm SO not concerned about her speech yet, I remember what a rough start she had and she's so stubborn, she will talk when she damn well pleases. She gives the best kisses. When I go "kiss!" and pucker up my lips, she scrunches up her nose, puckers her lips, and leans in to me. It's adorable!<br /><br />Our next cardiology appointment is October 6th at 9:45 am. Little over 3.5 months away!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-17296347887160367982009-06-16T05:54:00.000-07:002009-06-16T06:00:27.881-07:00Sorry for neglectingI got wrapped up in her carepage and kept forgetting to copy and paste posts. Then it became months with no updates and I just let it slide.<br /><br /><br /><br />In a nutshell, Lillian is doing quite well right now! Her last cardiology appt was in April and it showed normal heart functioning numbers, with slight enlargement on the left side still. Her next appt is 10/6.<br /><br /><br /><br />She is crawling, she will stand for a couple seconds alone, she cruises furniture like a champ. She is not walking yet, not talking, and only has 1 tooth.<br /><br /><br /><br />She weighs about 22 pounds right now, which is low on the charts for her age but she looks chunky and huge to me! We are coming up on her turning 17 months old on the 18th and the 1 year anniversary of her surgery and I cannot believe it's been a year, and I'm astonished at the changes in her since her repair.<br /><br /><br /><br />She has been very sleepy the last few days and it kind of concerns me. She slept Sunday from 9:30-11:15am and then 1pm-3:30pm. Yesterday she slept from 10:45am-12:30pm and then was back asleep 45 minutes later and slept from 1:15-4:15pm. This is quite uncharacteristic of her. Hopefully it's just a growth spurt maybe? Of course with her history I will always worry.<br /><br />More consistent updates to follow, I promise!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-48017027544000985912008-12-01T06:32:00.000-08:002008-12-01T06:34:51.162-08:00Thanksgiving, snow, december, and the like...I can't believe it's December already! I've been away from work for 5 days and busy with family and Thanksgiving and such. Now I have a small amount of time to reflect on the week and write an update of sorts.<br /><br />We had a good Thanksgiving. We visited Brandon's family in Guilford for a bit and then traveled to Kansas City to eat good food with my family. I adore my family and none of them had seen Lillian since her surgery except for my grandparents who housed us while we were down there. They were all surprised and impressed with her progress and how big she looks, to them. I realized this is the first time since late September that I went down there for something other than cardiology.<br /><br />We woke up to our first snow Saturday morning. I was bummed because I hate snow, and I had planned on doing the kids Christmas pics on Saturday and had wanted to use natural light, and all the clouds were killing that. So I ended up just using black and white backgrounds and artificial light, which is not my forte, and photoshopping them until the white looked White enough.<br /><br />It takes everything I have sometimes not to obsess about Lily anymore and sometimes I want to just scoop her up and run to the nearest baby scale to make sure she is still gaining weight, still looks good, etc... you know us obsessive moms. Sometimes she looks so big to me but then I remembered, as I put her in 3-6 month size sleep pants the other night, that she is still quite small. Baby clothes are sized so weird - depending on the brand she can and does wear clothes anywhere from 3-6 months in pants to 18 months in shirts. Most of her clothes are 6-9 or 12 months.<br /><br />I was able to get her a "baby's first christmas" onesie and I was rather excited about that, as Collin was too big to wear any of those things when it was his first Christmas. He was born in March and despite being only 9 months old at Christmas, he was a normal size child and was wearing 12 month clothes. I guess clothing designers assume that any child in size 12 month clothes is at least 12 months old and don't make "first christmas" things that size, because I have never seen one bigger than 6-9 months. I snapped up the last one that size at Walmart last night and put her in it, and she promptly got chicken dinner all over it so it needs washed. It fits, and will probably fit her all through the end of the year unless it shrinks bad in the wash. Gosh, sometimes I forget she will be one next month!<br /><br />She is getting closer to crawling, she almost gets up on all fours now, she spends much more time on her tummy without crying. I think we are making progress on the teeth, this morning I saw two very distinct bumps. Maybe my child will cut teeth, after all!<br /><br />I will be calling Children's Mercy again today, as my doctor's office up here still has not gotten her report from the October visit. Is there a wall nearby I can bang my head into? I do think I will be asking the doctor's office about her sweaty hands and feet, just to put my mind at ease. I was going to let it go but it's 20 degrees outside and her feet and hands are still sweating. It's really crazy sometimes - the girl can barely wear shoes because they really make her feet awful.<br /><br />We definitely have plenty to be thankful for! There were times earlier this year when I wondered if this day would ever come! Our house is festive looking now and we are looking forward to Christmas. Prayers go out to Connor Dickson's family, as Connor (HLHS) earned his angel wings Saturday. Thank you all who continue to read this and check in on us and pray for us - you mean a lot to us!!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-71106037297112807612008-11-20T14:18:00.000-08:002008-11-20T14:19:39.592-08:005 months post op<p>Yesterday was 5 months post op. Tuesday she turned 10 months old. Today is 5 months, 1 day post op - she had surgery at 5 months, 1 day old... so she has been post op for as long as she was born pre-op.</p><p>I cannot believe it... it seems like yesterday. Yet the one month from when surgery was scheduled to when it happened seemed like eternity.</p><p>She gets funnier and more of a personality every day. She scoots herself backwards in her walker and seems surprised when it moves. She holds her bottle better these days and eats anything I feed her. STILL no teeth - I think she is taking after her momma. She still eats up anything Collin says or does to her. She will watch Collin and Sasha (our dog) play chase with the tiny yorkie-sized tennis ball and just laugh and squeal. It's one of the few times I get a real laugh out of her. She's a very somber baby. Her feet still sweat constantly, so do her hands. Sometimes it's hard to tell if her hands are sweaty or if they're just covered in slobber.</p><p>I still don't think the enormity of everything that happened has actually sank in, and maybe it never will. Maybe there's a reason it hasn't, similar to why parents aren't allowed in the OR and why people leave the room when a baby has a medical crisis. It's just too heartbreaking, too painful. I was looking back at her pictures today and reflecting on what a tough girl she is, and I saw the ones of her on her ventilator and all hooked up to everything, fresh out of the OR. She's laying there, asleep and helpless, and it's the closest I've ever come to completely understanding what she went through. It's like a bucket of ice settled in my stomach, and for a brief moment I realized exactly what had happened. I have lived with the scars every day, but never fully grasped the cause. My daughter is a miracle, she's amazing, and her strength once again has me speechless.</p><p>Joyous thanks and praise to God for Haley Mae - who is kicking everyone's butt in the hospital and doing so well - and to Stefan, who is recovering in smaller steps but nonetheless doing fine. Continued prayers coming their way.</p>Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-2051516561729778832008-11-17T05:30:00.000-08:002008-11-17T05:33:08.490-08:00Almost 10 months<p>I was thinking yesterday, that Lillian is the better part of a year old! She turns 10 months old tomorrow, and Wednesday marks 5 months exactly from surgery. Since she had surgery at 5 months, 1 day old... she's been post-op for as long as she was born pre-op, if that makes sense at all. I can't believe it's all gone so fast.<br /><br />It's weird to think of her being almost one, because I still see her as so much of a baby. She still uses her swing and bouncy seat, she doesn't crawl, she has no teeth, know what I mean? Like at this age, Collin had been crawling for 2 months, had a tooth, was pulling up on furniture and cruising all over the room, and was in to everything. If we tried to put him in his swing/bouncy, he looked at us like he thought we were nuts. But, he also didn't fit - he was too fat for them!<br /><br />It's hard not to baby her and encourage her to stay like a newborn - she was small, sick, and helpless for so long, it's almost routine. I was looking at her the other day, curled up in her crib, under her blanket, and she looked very much like a newborn still. She still seems so small in her big crib with her pink fuzzy blanket that I got her when we were discharged from Children's Mercy. It's Lily and Mommy's favorite blanket and it's used almost every night. When she's under her blanket, or in her infant carrier all bundled up, she seems to dissapear and no one would guess she's almost one.<br /><br />I got to talk to another heart mom from Maryville last week, she is Dr. G's second case ever. She asked if she could talk to someone else who's been there, so St Francis called and gave me her number. There were so many similar things, except her baby is 5 mos old and already bigger than my 9 month old! But her baby has a VSD and they have surgery upcoming, and we talked for probably the better part of an hour. I tried to give her as much advice as possible, but sometimes it's hard to know what to say - even having been through it myself.<br /><br />Lillian got some red and green themed hairbows the other day and I put in pigtails with the bows and it looked soooo cute. She's also been in her walker for the first time, it's the walker that keeps getting passed from my sister in law, to us, back to her, back to us, with each kid. She's not got a clue about the stepping motion, but she likes Winnie the Pooh on it.<br /><br />I also wanted to get on here and give a big shout out and prayer request to Haley Mae and Stefan, both of which are undergoing open heart surgery today. Please keep them in your prayers - for a safe surgery and speedy recovery. Thinking of you guys.<br /><br />More later. Thank you to all who continue to read this and check in on us.</p>Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-47992859843997896782008-11-09T12:02:00.000-08:002008-11-09T12:03:00.818-08:00Just babblingI haven't written in about a week which seems like such a long time, so I figured I'd pop in.<br />Not a lot to say, really. Lily's legs just keep getting stronger, I hold her hands simply for balance and she pushes from a sit to a stand using her legs. Yesterday evening and this morning she's been rolling over to her tummy a lot more and seeming less pissed off when she realizes she's on her stomach. We had some cartoons on briefly this morning and she flipped over and propped herself up with her arms and was watching the TV from her stomach. It was funny to look at. She gets all excited and bangs on the floor and kicks her legs like a frog and I just know that if she'd build some strength in her arms and realize what they are for she'd be crawling in a heartbeat. She seems to have no interest in her knees, even when I try to put her on all fours to see if she can hold that position she won't bend her knees and ends up on her hands and feet, like if she were to bear-walk. She'd much rather stand than sit.<br /><br />She's not been a good eater today - she's only ate her morning bottle and about 10 bites of a turkey dinner thing, but at least she napped good this morning. She didn't even seem to want her morning bottle, it took her almost an hour to drink it. Yesterday she took two very short naps that totaled less than an hour. This morning she took a 2 hour nap. Funny how big of a difference a day can make. Last night she must have gotten a frog in her throat cause she was coughing really hard and almost choking on her spit. It was odd - I hope she's not coming down with a cold.<br /><br />She's getting taller by the minute - things get too short before they get too small. She's outgrowing her infant carrier by length. I was really hoping to hold off on buying another carseat, but I think I'm going to have to. Collin has one in each of our cars that is a forward and backward facing convertible that works from 5-40 lbs, and I was hoping she could use those. She could, but he's still in them. He can't switch to a booster seat until he's 4 and 40 lbs, and he won't be 4 until March, and he's only 32-34 pounds since I can't get the kid to eat anything. By March, Lily will more than likely have outgrown her carrier in length. It's frustrating, because the weight limit on it is 20 lbs and she's not 20 lbs yet and probably won't be by the time she turns 1, so even if we did get her another carseat she wouldn't be able to face forward. She's just too darn tall for her carrier. The height limit is 29 inches and she's pushing 28 already and the shoulder straps are getting to where they need to be moved to a taller slot... and there aren't any more taller slots.<br /><br />Which means we're probably in the market for another carseat, which is cool because they have a cute pink one at walmart, but we'll need two - one for each car, since I take the kids in the morning and he picks them up when he gets off work. I guess I'm off to check out the babycenterstore.com, since I have a $20 coupon and a free shipping code for them.<br /><br />On that note, I'm really hoping her christmas dress fits her - it's size 12 months and it might, Christmas is 6 weeks off still I guess and by then she'll have gained probably close to another 1/2 - 3/4 pound. I haven't seen any other dresses that I really like, so I'm crossing my fingers. I guess if it's too big, it's too big... she has good reason for it!<br /><br />I guess that is all. It's hard getting used to just living life, I still feel like anything can happen at any time with a heart baby. Hard to get rid of that "pins and needles" feeling. As far as I know, our doctor here has not recieved the reports from CMH... I will try to wait until middle-to-end of November and call if I haven't heard from them. I will be a pest, and I do want copies of it all!<br /><br />Well, off to watch the race. Hoping everyone is doing well!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-8637565828030455252008-11-01T17:30:00.000-07:002008-11-01T17:34:57.573-07:00<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtXZ9nzfXykYrdqUCOi8lcXgndPmsJUcygefYfCESks7XDLNYozGRDt34oQet8bbWjpeazsqeOlGxk1It_DIUpKJndeIQOLNR7Pei-yaO5UzeaXOYXpiSZspGOCD9stEPbCFaSsPjcZSbi/s1600-h/lillian.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5263851198849129234" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 218px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtXZ9nzfXykYrdqUCOi8lcXgndPmsJUcygefYfCESks7XDLNYozGRDt34oQet8bbWjpeazsqeOlGxk1It_DIUpKJndeIQOLNR7Pei-yaO5UzeaXOYXpiSZspGOCD9stEPbCFaSsPjcZSbi/s320/lillian.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div></div><br /><p>Here's our little tiger for Halloween. <br />It went well around here. We took the kids to the city's "uptown trick or treating event" on thursday, where all the businesses on the square hand out candy just for the kids, it goes when it's still light out, from 5-7pm, and the police and stuff are there to keep people safe. It was packed. Lily was good, Collin was awful. He didn't want to do it anymore after about 10 minutes, so we just kept dragging him along - Brandon's sister Karissa and her two girls came with us. His other sister Tiffany and our third neice was going to come, but Sydney was sick so they stayed home. Due to Collin's crappy attitude on Thursday, we did not go out trick or treating last night. The kids went to Grandma's and Brandon and I went bowling. I was on a roll (haha, pun) on my first game and bowled a 126 (don't laugh... heehee... that's good for me...) Then I had a beer, and then another beer, and my bowling game got progressively worse in direct correlation to how many beers I had. Actually, I think I only had two, but my third game was an 87. Go figure.</p><p>I took some pictures of the kids in costume, and I posted Lily's here for you all to see. I had a mini heart attack Friday afternoon, after the kids were napping and I got a chance to try to upload all of my pictures. Turns out the (awful, no name, off brand) CompactFlash card I have had corrupted somehow. Insert panicked face here. Neither my computer or my camera could read any of the shots I'd taken. So I frantically searched the internet and found a free trial of a PC photo recovery tool, and spent 2 hours watching it painstakenly pull every.single.image I'd ever shot on that card (even deleted ones) from the depths of the "heavily damaged" (it's words) memory vault. Some of them it was only recovering half of the image, so I must have really messed something up somehow. That or the card just sucks. Thankfully, it recovered all but two of the Halloween ones. Happy Dance. $40 later, I am the proud owner of a new (hopefully better) CompactFlash card. </p><p>Anyways, that's just rambling. Lily's been fairly good. I noticed that her feet sweat, a lot. They kind of always have I guess. But it's so bad lately... she has such stinky feet. Every time I'd give her a bath I'd be like... what the heck smells like puke. Seriously. Well, this morning I was giving her feet extra attention and noticed... um... goo.. growing (?) between her toes. Bleccccchhhh. So I get that all cleaned up, and now I think it's intervention time. She's going sockless whenever she can, unless it's too cold, but luckily today has been 75 degrees. I have baby powdered her feet twice today in an attempt to keep them dry. I'm half tempted to call the pediatrician to see what he says... but I donno if he'd have any other advice other than "keep them dry." I hope she doesn't have some kind of fungus infection problem going on. Come to think of it, I might call Monday, just in case.</p><p>That's all for now folks. Send us rosy-smelling feet vibes.</p>Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-17349206818013412672008-10-28T06:04:00.000-07:002008-10-28T06:06:18.181-07:00This is Nuts!I think Lily will never crawl, I really think she'll go straight to walking. Last night I was sitting with my legs straight out in front of me and had her sitting on one of my legs, kind of straddling it with her feet on the floor. I was holding her hands and next thing I know she's pushed herself to a stand with her legs. I didn't help her at all, except I kept her from falling over.<br /><br />She's not steady on her feet - as in, I couldn't let go of her hands and expect her to stand up. But every day she gets stronger, I was so surprised that she stood herself right up! When I was changing her to her pajamas last night she was standing up holding on to my shoulders and I noticed that she wasn't holding on for dear life like she usually is, it was more of just something she used to balance herself.<br /><br />This girl has almost no arm strength - when she's on her tummy she can barely prop her head and chest up. She'll tuck her legs under her like she would if she were on all fours but she'll have her head buried in the carpet. She rarely rolls over. But she'll stand all day if you let her. I tried to get her to take "steps" but she didn't understand the concept of putting one foot in front of the other. Once she gets that, it's only a matter of time.<br /><br />Even with everything she's been through, I honestly think she will walk earlier than Collin did. He was crawling and pulling up on things at 8 months old, but was content to do that for a long time and didn't walk well until he was 16 months old. I don't think Lily will sit still that long.<br /><br />Now this is really cool guys...<br /><br />I am a part of a group of moms that get together to chat and share advice - we have a little message board that we fire questions and stories back and forth. There's girls from all over the world on it. They were a rock of support for me and kept updated through everything when Lily was in the hospital. One of the moms lives in Canada and runs races for charities and the proceeds go to whoever she decided she was going to run for. Anyways, they start back up in the spring and she told me yesterday that she's going to run the very next race in honor of Lily and in memory of Chloe, to raise money for CHD awareness!<br /><br />I almost fell off my chair! I got tears in my eyes, literally... we have touched people in Canada, that we've never even met! We're going to be getting the word out there and raising money for a cause that is soooo often overlooked in the name of bigger, scarier sounding (but much less common) cancers and diseases. Congenital Heart Defects are the most common and most deadly birth defects that affect babies and there just isn't enough funding and information out there! Did you know that researchers are working on a way to close some defects like VSDs and ASDs through a catheter, or sometimes an incision under the ribs, instead of open heart surgery? Some day, families and babies like Lily may not have to go through what we did!<br /><br />Okay, that's all for today. Lily was such a good girl last night, I fed her "pumpkins and pears" and it smelled really good, and most of it ended up on her bib and highchair. She cracks me up sometimes!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-52653666363861274432008-10-26T16:34:00.001-07:002008-10-26T16:44:22.864-07:00Halloween is comingWe took the kiddos to Mozingo lake last night for their campground trick-or-treating event. Collin was a ghost and kept walking around all night going "ooooo, oooo, OOOOOO" like a ghost would. All month he's been rambling on about how he wants to be a ghost, the kid could hardly contain himself. He was the perfect ghost.<br /><br />Lily was a tiger cub and a cute one at that. She sort of looked like a boy in the costume, I even attached a hairbow to one of the tiger ears on her hood and I still heard plenty of "how cute is HE!!" But oh well. I know she's a girl. I didn't get any pictures - the wind has been CRAZY this weekend and it was bright and smoky from all of the campfires. But we are going to the citywide trick or treating on Thursday night, the uptown businesses open their doors for the kids and it's always a good turnout. I promise I will take some pictures in their costumes before the season is over.<br /><br />Lily lasted until about 8pm before she'd had enough and we came home. She fell asleep on the way home and that was a challenge getting her into bed - I couldn't much let her sleep in her tiger costume so I had to change her. But she did good and woke once around 4 am for food - she hadn't eaten since 5pm so I wasn't surprised. Then she slept in until 9:30! Too bad Mommy can't sleep that long. It seems lately that I wake on the weekends around 7:30 - 8 and I'm up for good.<br /><br />We had a relaxing day - watched the Chiefs almost win (heartbreaker) and the Nascar race. One day my knight in shining #88 green armor will get me a chase win. Alas, not today.<br /><br />Just to clarify my previous post - I don't think anything is wrong with Lily. I'm not sure what to think about the CMH ordeal. I'm totally frustrated at their lack of response with such important information. I'm crossing my fingers that the Tuesday report comes in to St Francis quickly and Dr. G can review it and give me his opinion. I know he's not a pediatric cardiologist, but I also know that he knows when something doesn't add up. I will not hesitate to get a second opinion if he thinks I need to pursue that route. Our insurance is covering everything 100% at this point through the end of the calendar year, because we've maxed out our deductible and copayment. I know what symptoms to look for - Lily is gaining weight and is a pink baby at this point, unless something changes I will try to rest easy.<br /><br />Sidenote to Cassi - thank you so much for your offer, if I need directions I promise I will ask! :)<br /><br />That is all for now!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-34820901855760856972008-10-24T14:52:00.000-07:002008-10-24T14:53:57.533-07:00Drama drama<p>Lily saw her doctor back here at home today, for her 9 month well child check and a discussion of Tuesday's appt.</p><p>Today she was 16 lbs 12 oz, so I'm willing to bet there's a difference between the CMH scales and the Maryville scales... no way did she gain 4 ounces in 3 days. So I'll say 16 lbs 10 oz and call it good. It's hard to measure a squirmy baby, but she's hanging out at the 70% for height, around 27.5-28 inches, and 10% for weight.</p><p>Dr. G seemed frustrated at CMH's lack of detail and timely response. I told him that they were extremely busy Tuesday and Dr. Simon basically flew in and flew out at our appt, she was in and gone in 6 minutes and said that "things looked great." No mention of the enlargement, right ventricle muscle issues, mitral valve leakage - nothing. No details. What had concerned me the most about Tuesday's appointment was that Dr. Simon had said something to the effect of "lily is getting better every time I see her." Which we all know isn't true, because August's appointment wasn't good! So I basically told Dr. G - look, she has no symptoms, I'm going to assume everything is okay. There was still a slight murmur in August and he didn't hear a murmur today, so that would indicate that her enlargement has shrank and her mitral valve isn't leaking anymore.</p><p>At this point, Dr. G opened up Lily's file and realized that he hadn't even gotten August's report back from CMH yet. The last thing he ever received from them was about her surgery in June. So they call down there to request that both it and Tuesday's reports be faxed immediately. I go home, I get a call in about an hour from Dr. G - they got August's report but not Tuesdays. The August report they received wasn't even signed off on yet. Brenda (dr g's nurse) said she was giving it 3-4 weeks, that they'd call me when they got it and if I hadn't heard from them within a month, to call Children's and check on the progress of it.</p><p>So everyone involved is frustrated. CMH took good care of Lily and I understand that they're is busy right now, but it's irresponsible to delay this kind of information that long. I think Dr. G and Brenda are ready to wash their hands of them - they even said that if (IF) anything else were to happen with Lily or if I were ever concerned/wanted a second opinion that they wouldn't hesitate to refer us to Children's Hospital in Omaha. Dr. G said that cardiology has never been this slow before.</p><p>I'm starting to wonder what those reports say, and what the echo REALLY looked like in August, as well as Tuesday. The information we were given in August was not good, but now it seems as if the whole thing is being downplayed. I took it to be something of concern, something to monitor, and obviously we were brought back in 2 months for a reason. I clearly remember Dr. Simon being "dissapointed" - her words - in Lily's echo in August. And then on Tuesday, it's as if they almost wondered what the heck we were doing back so soon.</p><p>I'm thrilled if Lily is doing great... I'm willing to just "let it be" at that and move on. But if I find out that I worried and obsessed unnecessarily for 2 months, or if CMH cut corners or messed up anywhere, I'm going to not be so happy.</p><p>Okay, off my soapbox.</p>Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-18822480769650824032008-10-21T13:18:00.000-07:002008-10-21T13:19:17.012-07:00Breaking freeWe went to Kansas City today for a cardiology appointment. I think I held my breath all the way through the echo.<br /><br />And the verdict is... good news! Things appear to be shrinking back to normal like they should be. She said her weight and color look good. I could hardly believe my ears, I had prepared so much for bad news. I was like, are you sure? Heheh.<br /><br />Now it's like... now what? I feel like a prison inmate set free, looking at daylight for the first time. This thing has consumed us for 9 months, for Lily's entire life, and we don't know what normal is or how to be normal, there's never been "normal" since the day she was born. It will be so foreign to not have to worry, to just sit back and expect her to grow, to not examine her for blue fingernails and lips. It's a mental adjustment and an emotional overload, but one of the good kind for sure.<br /><br />God has been so good to us! How different things could have been. I've revisited this whole experience 100 times today... during the echo, waiting for the doctor, on the way home. I've thought about us, and her, and the others who weren't so lucky, and how much we have to be thankful for. I can't even put it into words. I can question "why" and wonder how life isn't what it's supposed to be to no end, but now it is time to move forward. Hopefully we can put this behind us. There are so many things that I wish hadn't happened and I wish I hadn't had to be there to witness, but I can't change it and wouldn't change the person it's made me today. Lily is one tough cookie - she's been through so much more in her short time here than most adults ever will in their entire lives.<br /><br />Thank you all for your incredible amount of support, your undying prayers... just your presence in our lives has meant so much.<br /><br />We go back in 6 months. That seems like an eternity!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-53755558113003825202008-10-18T12:04:00.000-07:002008-10-18T12:05:17.118-07:00Just passing timeOur Parents As Teachers chick, Elizabeth, came again last night. Collin just loves her. She worked with Lily first since Lily needed a nap. She was very impressed that she was sitting up finally, and that she was bearing weight on her legs and standing while I held her top half. She noted that she was very steady sitting for someone who just started sitting up, and that she loves to stand! She brought out a blanket to play peekaboo with and Lily loved it - it was white with different animals on it and Lily was fascinated by the animal pictures. I started naming the animals for her and Elizabeth said that was a great thing for me to do, it teaches her association skills. Lily took the blanket from me and held it up in front of her face and Elizabeth was amazed... she said it almost looked like she was trying to play peekaboo with it herself. Her intelligence is obviously there, she only seems to be delayed a bit in motor skills. Elizabeth encouraged us to bring out the highchair and scatter some cheerios or fruit puffs on it and see if she tries to feed herself. She said that Lily seems to be at about a 6 month old's developmental level in motor skills and handed us some sheets about how to work with 5.5 - 8 month old babies to encourage them with their motor skill development, since that's about where Lily is. Otherwise she seemed to be right at her age level for the way she babbles/vocalizes, and interacts with her toys and other people. We will definitely continue to encourage her fine motor skill development - grasping small objects, bringing things to her face, etc. If you put a toy in a box or tub, she will reach in the tub and look for it, and she kept trying to chase after a bottle with macaroni in it that Elizabeth had brought. She was rolling it away from herself and then stretching and reaching for it. I just know that if she could crawl she'd have been chasing that bottle all over the room! Elizabeth said she could definitely see progress from last time and was pleased!<br /><br />Collin is so smart! He made me proud last night. While Elizabeht was working with Lily she gave him a bag of little plastic cars, trucks, and trains that are different colors to occupy himself with. He took them to the couch and promptly sorted them out by type, not color. He piled all the cars together, all the trains together, etc. She said she'd expected him to sort them by color and what he did was a step ahead of that! She also brought a white shower curtain that she'd written different letters on with a Sharpie, both capital and lowercase, and laid it out on the floor like a mat. She had two beanbags and would ask Collin where a certain letter was and he got a huge kick out of throwing the beanbags to the letter she asked for. She was hugely impressed that he knows all of his letter sounds and if she would ask him to find the "muh" he'd be able to locate the M. He had troubles with the lowercase and she said most kids do, that all toys and DVD's and such seem to only teach the capital letters. But she said she doesn't think she's ever seen a 3 year old be able to consistently identify all letter sounds. And she's been doing this a while, so we took that as a huge compliment. He knows his full name now, first middle and last, and we've been teaching him his address. She worked with him on recognizing his written name and on writing the letters in his name, but he still mostly scribbles. But he can draw simple shapes, like a circle and a square, and made his pointer fingers and thumbs into a triangle last night. She brought out some three letter word flashcards, like "hat" and "cat" and "sun" and had him sound out the letter sounds for each letter to see if he could put them together, and he didn't quite get the sounds to flow but she said that was very advanced and would have absolutely flipped if he could have done that correctly - that's very basic reading! Collin's major area where he lacks is social skills, and that comes from never having been in formal daycare. Our goal is to budget enough room for pre-school next year, it's a huge financial shock to us since we are getting such a good deal from our babysitter, but he would really benefit from it and needs it before he goes to kindergarten.<br /><br />Well, that's all. I have some smart kids I suppose, and Lily will catch up and I'm sure she'll be crawling and walking before I know it, and I'll wish she was my little baby again! She still has no teeth, she was quite miserable last night, kept chomping on her fingers and had a hard time staying asleep and I fully expected a shiny new tooth this morning, but nope. We are going to Pickering today for a hayride at my sister-in-law's husband's parent's farm (follow that?) so that should be a good time.<br /><br />3 more days till cardiology!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-47290956922619427522008-10-15T06:26:00.001-07:002008-10-15T06:26:21.902-07:00The wait is killing me.<p>6 days.<br /></p><p>It's the kind of wait that drives a girl insane.<br /></p><p>The kind of wait that keeps you up at night, mind racing, tossing and turning. I'm so beyond stressed out... I'm jumping into the deep end, I swear.<br /></p><p>I could not sleep last night, for anything! I had this whole post wrote out in my head, and now I can't remember it.</p>Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-28107044511765857912008-10-12T15:29:00.001-07:002008-10-12T15:29:44.454-07:00We had a good day<p>It was just a normal day. We didn't have anything planned - the race and our football game was last night. Usually we spend Sundays eating popcorn and drinking beer, yelling at the TV while guys in too fast cars take left turns all day and bigger, sweatier guys tackle each other over a pigskin ball. However, the nascar race and the Mizzou football game were last night, and were disasters at that. My driver blew a tire 100 laps in and Mizzou slinked off the field with their proverbial tails between their legs, having lost and therefore lost the shot at the #1 ranking.<br />Needless to say, we went to bed dissapointed, and woke up bored. Thankfully, the Chiefs didn't play today or that would have led to more dissapointment, I'm sure... and I don't need any more of that this weekend.<br /></p><p>So what does dissapointment and boredom lead to? Shopping. We went to St Joe and I raided Target and TJ Maxx, and basically stole some baby girl clothes. I got her two winter outfits (pants and shirts), a pair of jeans, and a winter coat by XOXO Baby that originally sells for $50... for a grand total of $46. Rock on. Retail therapy is fun, too bad it's not something we can budget into every weekend.<br /></p><p>It was good to get out as a family and feel normal. The kids were good. We clogged our arteries at McDonald's and let Collin go wild on the playgym. I got some McDonald's monopoly pieces that failed to win me any money. Lily charmed everyone she met, and then they both slept all the way home. What more could a girl ask for, really?<br /></p><p>Well, that's all I suppose. Counting down the days until cardiology - 9 to go. Let's hope it's a good one!</p>Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-42975995227464372952008-10-10T09:52:00.000-07:002008-10-10T09:57:56.452-07:00Another weight check<p>After the last disastrous weigh in at her shots appt, Dr. Golightly wanted me to bring her back in a couple weeks to monitor her. So I got Lily weighed today, she's up to 16 lbs 3 oz, so that is half an ounce a day for 2 weeks, which is better than 3 ounces in 3 weeks. That ends up being 15 grams a day for the past two weeks, which is the minimum Dr. Simon would like to see. When you account for the 35 days since her weigh-in September 5th, which was the last time it looked like she was gaining at a good pace, and the total of 10 ounces she's gained since then, it averages out to 8.1 grams a day, which is still much lower than the 21.5/day pace she was gaining at.</p><p>Some of you may wonder why I worry about this so much, but poor weight gain is often times (but not always) an indicator of poor heart function. So yes, I obsess. It may mean nothing, or it might mean something, at this point we will see when we return to cardiology on Oct 21st. Until then, keep us in your prayers.</p>Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-78128690868788035242008-10-06T12:34:00.000-07:002008-10-06T12:39:10.725-07:00Tagged!<p>This tag comes from Megan at <a href="http://isabellagudde.blogspot.com/">http://isabellagudde.blogspot.com/</a>. Here are the rules...<br /></p><p>1. Link your tagger and list these rules on your blog.<br />2. Share seven facts about yourself on your blog--some random, some weird.<br />3. Tag seven people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blogs.<br /></p><p><strong>About Myself</strong><br />1. I love my small town and hate the big city, but I long for a beach and better shopping.<br />2. I am fairly organized at work but a total slob at home.<br />3. I talk to myself, often.<br />4. I can sing and play the piano, but I never get the chance to anymore because my son wants to play with me and my daughter screams because it's too loud for her.<br />5. I take everything too personally.<br />6. I met my husband at Walmart.<br />7. I am obsessed with keeping Lily's room very clean and tidy... everything gets folded and put away immediately and I'm constantly organizing her little shoes and hairbows.</p><p>I don't have 7 friends on blogger yet... :(. But I can tag</p><p>The Breuers at <a href="http://www.breuerfamily.com/">http://www.breuerfamily.com</a></p><p>and Kyle and Marilyn at www.marilynjohnson.blogspot.com</p>Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-84182723460248880082008-10-06T12:29:00.000-07:002008-10-06T12:30:04.023-07:00Lillian is sitting!I am so excited for her, I had this personal goal that she'd be sitting by 9 months, and she beat it by two weeks! She is getting better at it every day, too. She can also roll over now, but she doesn't do it often. She loves to sit. She can't get herself into a sitting position, so I have to put her there and then fix her if she falls, but she can hold herself up for several minutes now and it's so darn cute, it makes me smile.<br /><br />It's so good to have something so positive, to see her doing what all babies her age should be doing! I'm posting new pictures, too!<br /><br />I think we might have found a solution to the constipation... we've been trying out the Similac Sensitive formula which I guess is sort of new, I don't remember seeing it before really. It's milk based, lactose free (the Gentlease is only reduced lactose). Since I had tried her on the Soy formula with no luck, it hadn't occurred to me to try a milk based lactose free formula... but apparently some babies don't tolerate Soy well either! She seems to have an easier time pooping, with no Miralax! Let's hope it lasts!<br /><br />I will take her to get weighed this Friday or Saturday, two weeks exactly since her shots. Let's hope the numbers are better this time!!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-41257834001487454752008-10-01T09:44:00.000-07:002008-10-01T09:45:09.673-07:00Finally another phone call!Good lord they can be slow sometimes. Anyways, Diane-the-cardiology-nurse called me back today and said she talked to Dr. Simon... and Dr. Simon told me to take a deep breath and that she really doesn't think that her weight is cardio related at this point. They really don't see how what was going on in there in August could cause that.<br /><br />Whew.<br /><br />They did tell me that she could have just hit a small plateau, to maybe weigh her in a couple weeks if it would make me feel better, to see where she's at. They reminded me that they did take her off the 24 calorie/ounce formula and that could have affected it, and I reminded them that that happened in August and she was gaining fine up until September 5th, so that I don't think that's the case. She seemed like she'd forgotten that this just happened.<br /><br />Basically they said I could return her to the 24 cal formula if my pediatrician and I think that's necessary, but they really don't at this point. They didn't think much needed to be done, really, unless she starts losing weight.<br /><br />Okay. I hope they're right and not being apathetic about it all. I'll take it for now.Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-87090922445288362132008-09-29T12:59:00.001-07:002008-09-29T14:57:10.552-07:00Phone tag<p>She said she'd chat with Dr. Simon, but she thinks what they saw going on with her heart in august probably isn't bad enough at this point to cause such a dramatic drop in weight gain, unless something new has developed. She does think seeing GI might be a good idea. She will call me back. It's never ending phone tag.</p><p>She also mentioned that every baby scale is different, but it's probably not THAT much different to alleviate concerns - that 3 ounces in 3 weeks is really low and that to be gaining the minimum of 15 grams a day, she needs 7 more ounces and the scales are probably not that much off.</p>Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-53717563942856318142008-09-26T19:45:00.000-07:002008-09-26T19:46:24.026-07:00Lillian got all caught up on her shots today, she got her 6 month set. No more until she's 12 months, yahoo! We go to the health department to do them, it's free that way. Free is always better than not free.<br /><br />When we got there, I figured - hey, they have a scale, let's stick her on it! And you know, I've done the math, obsessive mom me. Dr. Simon said back at the beginning of this mess, they like their "heart babies" to gain anywhere from 15 to 17 grams a day at least (0.52-0.59 ounces) and that normal babies can gain up to 30 grams a day (about an ounce). At the beginning, Lily was gaining anywhere from 15-21 grams a day, and then in the two weeks before surgery, when she was her worst, failed to gain any weight at all.<br /><br />So today, I knew that since she was 15 lbs 9 ounces on Sept 5th and it's been 21 days, that the bare minimum of 15 grams/day would put her at 16 lbs 3.5 ounces. That was the target, but she's been doing fairly well and gaining at a good pace, I figured it would be more. At least, I hoped.<br /><br />She was.... 15 pounds, 12 ounces. She's gained a whopping 3 ounces in 3 weeks. I even asked the nurse if that was right - could the scale be wrong? Nope, it was calibrated two weeks ago. Awesome.<br /><br />That is a full 7 ounces less than the minimum she should have gained... wtf. Since she eats like a pig and gobbles up 6 ounce bottles and inhales whatever solid food she gets with a big sloppy grin... something's not right.<br /><br />This means one of two things - something's wrong in her intestines that is preventing her from absorbing the nutrients and calories, or her heart is getting worse again, and rather quickly at that. This is a very sudden drop off, she'd been gaining well all the way up into early September. Since she has no reflux, she doesn't act like eating is bothering her, and she has no history of GI problems other than some constipation, my money is on the latter of the two - why would something develop out of nowhere so quickly?<br /><br />So I've got calls into Children's Mercy and our pediatrician - he returned my call and his nurse wants us to see the GI specialist at CMH... not sure what good that would do. But whatever. What's another test, really. I didn't hear back from CMH today, my call didn't get in until 4pm and my doctor switches hospitals mid-day, she was probably at the south side clinic already. So I get to sit and stew all weekend - will she want us to increase the calories in her formula again, will she want us to come in sooner... etc. Is my baby going to keel over in front of me someday?<br /><br />Like Robin Williams says, I need a drug that encompasses everything... f**kitall. Maybe they could market it as Fucitol. When you don't want to leave a warm bed on a cold dark morning... Fucitol. When you don't want to go to work... Fucitol. When you don't want to eat or drink... Fucitol. When you don't want to face the bad news that you know is coming... Fucitol.<br /><br />Wasn't surgery supposed to fix this? I am really at a loss for words tonight, and I don't know why.Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-26745902627946750862008-09-23T07:05:00.000-07:002008-09-23T07:18:21.401-07:00RamblingsThe nurse called us back and said that Dr. F thinks we should try increasing the Miralax to 3/4 tsp, up from 1/2 tsp. Her chart indicates that she can safely have 1 tsp every day. I guess we'll try the 3/4 for a while, I'm sure it'll work at first and then I can see her building a tolerance to it and us increasing it again and so on and so forth. I'm about to give up and go back to the Nutramigen on my own, screw it.<br /><br /><br /><br />Sometimes at night, I just stand and stare at her. I have a hard time laying her down at night and a hard time getting her up in the morning - at night I don't want to let her go and in the mornings I don't want to wake her up, she looks so peaceful just sleeping. Last night she wasn't settling down and I just stood over her crib, petting her hair and running my hands over her face. I'd cradle her cheeks and she'd settle down and look all peaceful and sleepy. I could feel her heartbeat and how quiet it feels, relative to what it was before surgery. I can't help but wonder what's still wrong in there... I try to imagine what it looks like, and if it's working harder that it should be... if it's still enlarged, if her right ventricle is slowly shrinking and becoming blocked. I wonder if she's a ticking time bomb, if one day she's going to turn blue and I'll have to spring into action and race to the hospital. Every day, I examine her, I look at her fingernails, I stare at her lips and temples... "does she look blue to you? no, honey. are you sure? yes, honey, you are crazy... she's fine..." and I know she is, but it's a mother's job to worry.<br /><br /><br /><br />I treasure these moments, where I stand there and drink her in and know that things could have been so different, I wonder what could have been and how lucky we are. I want to cry for all the mothers who've not been so lucky, whose babies have been through 2 or 3 or 4 surgeries, who've lost their angels and have to find a way to go on. I want to cry for Chloe's mom, and for Elli's mom, and for all they've been through and all they'll never know, and for the blessing of the days they had with their babies here on earth. The pain takes my breath away sometimes.<br /><br /><br /><br />Thank you to all my fellow "heart moms" and mothers of babies with medical needs, who've been so supportive and know exactly what I'm talking about. We just keep marching on, day by day, and thank our stars for what we've been given!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-42191640492371181592008-09-22T07:57:00.001-07:002008-09-22T07:57:44.869-07:00I'm getting gray hair!<p>Lily is constipated again! The Miralax just isn't cutting it I guess, it's like she's built up a tolerance! It worked fine for 2 weeks, and now she hasn't pooped since Thursday. So I call the doctor again.<br /></p><p>I talk to the nurse... of course my doctor isn't in the office today! *bangs head.* So I had to tell THIS nurse the whole story... again. This is getting old. Now she has to relay that story to the OTHER doctor... like a telephone game! I wonder how many details will get lost along the way. She acted like she thinks this doctor will want us to go back on the Nutramigen.<br />I don't care anymore. I explained to her, again, why we tried to switch back to Gentlease. We've tried everything to keep her "regular" and nothing works for more than a couple weeks. I'm sick of making her miserable and I'm very wary having her on a laxative... I definitely don't want her to become dependant on it. I think I'd rather drain my wallet than increase the Miralax dose, honestly. Guess we'll see!<br /></p><p>Parents as Teachers went well. She said Collin is very smart and Lily is delayed. Well, duh. I think she's going to check on her development next month before anyone refers to anyone who might be able to help her development.</p>Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-66289516516395249692008-09-12T14:08:00.000-07:002008-09-12T14:09:19.762-07:00Our follow up since starting the Miralax was today. It went pretty well, and I'm glad we had it because she's developed her first cold. I swear the nurses are lazy... they don't like to strip her down for weight checks unless it's a formal "well child check." I had to ask her to do it... you'd think with how much I've been in there they'd understand that she has a heart problem and it's very important to get an accurate weight. This nurse today was our doctor's head nurse, too, I was surprised.<br /><br />But anyways, her naked weight was 15 pounds, 9 ounces. She was 14 pounds 12 ounces naked on August 19th, and I don't count the other two weigh ins since then because she had clothes on. I'm a psychotic mom and do the math every time she needs to get weighed... you know, the whole "if she should be gaining an ounce a day, this is how much she should weigh based on her last weight and the number of days since then..." My math came out to 16 pounds, 4 ounces. Which she isn't, but our ped wasn't concerned... he said she's following the same growth curve that she always has and at least she's not dropping off. Actually, at her last weigh in she had jumped up the curve a bit and now she's back down, but we also stopped making her formula extra strength so she's getting fewer calories. I just take what I can get and try not to panic about it. If the doctors are happy, then I'm happy.<br /><br />He said there's nothing I can really give her for her cold, at her age and with her medical history. He said if it lingers on for days they do make a liquid Claritin that I can give her 1/2 tsp of to help dry her up. I'm going to just let it run it's course... everyone is sick right now, you know?<br /><br />I mentioned that the Miralax has really helped, she's been pooing twice a day, and last night's was almost runny. We're going to scale back to every other day... he wants to get her on the lowest effective dose. Some babies end up only needing it once or twice a week. Hopefully that's mine, but Lillian doesn't really have a history of making things easier on me ;D.<br />We have our first appointment with Parents as Teachers next Thursday evening, they are coming to look at Collin and talk to us about him, they have a program for 0-3 years and then 3-5 years old. I'm sure he's doing fine, but it'll be nice to have some interaction with someone else and get new ideas for games and things that will help him get ready for preschool next year. They are still deciding who they'll assign to Lily, they had a new girl they were going to give to her but with Lily's medical history and her developmental delays, I think they're considering putting her with someone more experienced.<br /><br />That's all for now!Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4470095917582132252.post-22497054454320094082008-09-11T09:41:00.000-07:002008-09-11T09:43:39.357-07:00Doctor TomorrowTomorrow we do a follow up with our pediatrician from our impromptu appointment on Saturday. He wants to see how she's doing on Miralax and get a good, naked, accurate weight. If her weight gain has dropped off, it will give us insight to how her heart is pumping and if it is working overtime again.<br /><br />I'm uneasy giving her Miralax, but whatever helps her feel better and reduces strain on her body is fine with me at this point, I suppose.<br /><br />Will update following the appt tomorrow.Lillian'shearthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05361716070813908902noreply@blogger.com1